You know, it’s okay to not have it all together.

Whether you’re single or married or dating,and have an apartment or live at home or own a house or are crashing at a friend’s place, and if you’re pregnant or with kids or without kids or don’t want kids or can’t have kids. If you have your dream job or you’re in school or are still trying to get there or are content with where you are or want to leave where you are for something different. If you’re 20 or 25 or 30 or 35 and you aren’t where you thought you’d be or aren’t who you thought you’d be.

It’s okay. No one has it all together. No one has it all figured out, regardless of how much we all try to act like we do. Looks can be deceiving. We are all in the same little boat, really. Don’t let the pressures of society dictate where you are in life or convince you of where you “should” be. Resist the urge to ask, “What’s next?” Enjoy the sweet messes of your life today.

Embrace the perfectly flawed.